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Hi! I’m Suzanne Venker. I help women make smart choices in life and in love by imploding cultural narratives that undermine this goal.

That means I say things about men, marriage, work & family that are unpopular but true. I take a lot of flack as a result, but I do it for you. Because no one can make smart choices without first having all the facts.

Here’s what we know today about women’s happiness and well-being: According to a 2007 report from the National Bureau of Economic Research, “As women have gained more freedom, more education, and more power, they have become less happy.” This is true both in America and in the U.K.

Does that mean women shouldn’t be free, educated or powerful? Of course not. But it does mean our culture’s obsession with equality has come at an enormous cost.

If you want to be happy, you must change the paradigm you’ve been taught to embrace. A paradigm is the lens by which you view the world and the people in it. It’s the attitude you’ve been conditioned to carry with you, which in turn governs your choices and behavior. If the paradigm is flawed, your life will be flawed too.

Change the paradigm, and you change your life. Read Suzanne’s formal bio.

“All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered—the point is to discover them.” — Galileo Galilei

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SUZANNE’S BOOKS

THE WAR ON MEN

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An explosive treatise on the new sexual dynamic that pervades America: empowering women by dis-empowering men

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THE FLIPSIDE OF FEMINISM

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The truth about feminism no one else will tell you

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THE TWO-INCOME TRAP

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A powerful argument for sequencing one’s life to reap the rewards of motherhood (eBook)

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COMMENTARY

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  • Respect for your husband is key.

    Hands down, the most important thing to understand about men is their need for respect. Respect is the glue that makes the dance work. Everything else, and I mean everything else, flows from there. In the same way you crave your husband’s love and attention,......

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    Gloria Steinem once said women “are becoming the men we wanted to marry.” To which I say: be careful what you wish for. It’s true that becoming more masculine—more dominant, aggressive, or just plain alpha—will get you ahead at the office. But it can be a big,......

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